1) Use common sense and pay attention to your gut reaction. This is often the Holy Spirit in you, warning you that things may not be right。
1)运用常识，相信直觉。这是你内心的真正感受，会提醒你事情是不是有点不对劲了。
2) If he or she sounds too good to be true, he or she probably is to good to be true and isn’t being truthful on his or her profile。
2)如果对方好得有点不真实了，那么就应该质疑一下他/她的身份的真实性了。
3) Listen and watch (by video) for signs of a temper, control, etc. and run for the hills if you sense this person needs therapy first. You aren’t going to change him or her. Let the person get help。
3)听一听，看一看(通过视频)对方的性格脾气。如果你觉得这个人有点不太正常，那就赶紧撤吧。你可没必要去改变他/她，让他/她自己想办法吧。
4) Use a free email account with family name and something else. This way a person cannot search all your personal details。
4)用你的姓氏开通一个免费的电子邮箱，防止别人来搜索你的个人信息。
5) Ask for a RECENT picture and encourage the person to send candid shots for more realism. You don’t want major surprises when you meet. Awkward!
5)问对方要一张他/她的近照，最好是生活照，这样更真实。你也不想在见面的时候，对方是恐龙或青蛙吧，见光死啊！
6) If any one asks for money, do not give it. Most likely you are being scammed。
6)如果对方问你要钱，千万别给！十有八九是来骗钱的。
7) Don’t reveal details of your personal life too soon and be careful what you reveal。
7)别太快把自己的生活细节泄露给对方，多留意自己都说了些什么。 1/2 12下一页尾页